There are so many stressful things that are going to go on over the next 12-15 months, or less, depending on how soon you are to take that walk down aisle and marry your prince charming. Us women have been dreaming of that perfect moment since we were old enough to remember Cinderella.

With that said, of course we want only our most trusted and loyal, friends standing next to us. College roommates, sisters, or other close friends will all make good choices for a maid of honour, but no one told you it was going to be so difficult to choose. Just who do you choose? Will it be your big sister, mum, roommate, cousin, or friend?? You most probably have had great memories and laughs with all of them, how do you know which one is the best choice as maid of honor? Well first ask yourself these three simple questions:

Who Do I Want Standing Beside Me?

This could be a list a mile long, but try and narrow it down to 5. Most bridal parties have one maid of honor, and 3 or 4 bridesmaids. However, remember that this is your day and you can ultimately have it anyway you want it. Now from that list, think about your wedding day, time of year, travel arrangements the girls will have to make, and think about what a maid of honor does:

• The Maid of Honor is at the bride’s side and there for her every whim:
• She will be the last one anyone sees walk down the aisle before you
• She is there to sooth the nerves, and keep everything in working order
• Plan an outstanding hen night that you will appreciate and remember!

Do I Want It To Be A Family Member?

If you are someone who is lucky enough to have a few sisters, it can be hard to choose between them, and maybe you shouldn’t. Your Maid of Honor does not have to be family member. It is of course a great honour and any close family member would no doubt only be too pleased to be asked to be your maid of honor.

So I choose a close friend?

A best friend is always a popular choice. You may know someone you grew up with, went to school with and you have known for many years. This should be a trusted and reliable person. It is the ultimate honour to bestow upon them, so they should be delighted.

It is time to start narrowing down that list. Think about each of those ladies, and what characteristics they bring out in you when you are around them. No one else can make this decision for you.


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